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Mourning the Loss of Who I’ll Never Become

In many ways, I’ve been procrastinating on grieving the loss of my former self while also mourning the version I will never be. I’m writing a book and the working title is…

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Getting an Official Diagnosis

The journey of self-discovery is filled with a lot of breakthroughs. I’ve been looking for answers since I was in my 30s and being affirmed is a double edged sword. I have…

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Perspective is through the lens of where you’re at right now. Navigating life means shifting how you view the world when you get new information.

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The Nuance of TMI

I’m torn and today was a difficult day to write this musing because I am still in a funky headspace to process how I feel about sharing such details. Social media is…

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Am I Really Emotionally Invested in Fear?

Why do we do the things we do when we intellectually KNOW they are not what we want to do? I’m not referring to that day job that helps pay your bills.…

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Things Haven’t Been the Same Since 2020

Many people had a “come to Jesus” moment about who they wanted to be and how they wanted to monetize their expertise. The “hustlers” took to social media and created a ton of content because that became one of the only places to generate income.

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Being Undiagnosed

My mental health journey has been complex. I go between “is this astrology” or “is this an expression of trauma?” I have insight…tons of it, and I wonder if that’s helping or…

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Are You Loyal to Things That Don’t Reciprocate?

Social media is one of those areas where I always wonder why people are so determined to stay where they’re either intentionally excluded or encouraged to not participate.

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The Complexity of Hyper-Visibility

Without being present, how will your potential customers find you? With being present, how will you ensure you don’t overstep your own boundaries?

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Stop Talking to Your Younger Self

Coaches do this nifty exercise where they ask you to write a letter to your younger self; in theory, it sounds quaint. The more I think about it, the more I am…